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The Bello's Take Over

#OurBELLOvedStory

Hi [FirstName]! 

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Welcome to your personalized wedding crew dashboard. Below, you’ll find everything you need to prepare for a magical week in Lagos. Thank you for accepting to be a [guestTag]. We're excited to takeover Detty December with you!

Below is everything you need to know about your role and what you're expected to do. We picked you for a reason, and we trust you'll show up beautifully 💕

👑 Maid of Honor –

✏️ Your To-Dos:

  • Renew passport (if needed)

  • Book your flight + accommodation

  • Order traditional outfit

  • Order bridesmaid dress

  • Submit full body measurements

  • Submit high-quality photo

  • Send 2–3 fun facts about you + the bride


📝 Your Responsibilities:

  • Coordinate bridesmaids, timeline reminders

  • Be bride’s right hand (bags, food, glam, vibes)

  • Hold bouquet, manage emergency kit

  • Capture behind-the-scenes content

  • Give a toast

🤵🏾 Best Man –

✏️ Your To-Dos:

  • Renew passport (if needed)

  • Book your flight + accommodation

  • Order traditional outfit

  • Order custom suit

  • Submit full body measurements

  • Submit photo + 2 fun facts about you + groom


📝 Your Responsibilities:

  • Lead groomsmen + stay in contact with groom

  • Help with transitions + logistics

  • Hold the rings + give a toast

  • Be the calm during the storm 😎

👯‍♀️ Bridesmaids –

✏️ Your To-Dos:

  • Renew passport (if needed)

  • Book your flight + accommodation

  • Order traditional outfit

  • Order bridesmaid dress

  • Submit full measurements

  • Submit photo + 2 fun facts about you + bride


📝 Your Responsibilities:

  • Support Maid of Honor + bride

  • Be photo + glam ready for all events

  • Participate in Traditional walk-in

  • Create joy, support, and hype energy

🕺🏾 Groomsmen – 

✏️ Your To-Dos:

  • Renew passport (if needed)

  • Book flight + accommodation

  • Order traditional outfit

  • Order custom suit

  • Submit measurements

  • Send photo + 2 fun facts about you + groom


📝 Your Responsibilities:

  • Support Best Man + groom

  • Walk in processional

  • Assist with ushering

  • Keep the vibes smooth and sharp

💃🏾 Aso Ebi Train –

✏️ Your To-Dos:

  • Purchase and tailor Friday + Saturday outfits

  • Submit Nigeria/U.S. shipping address

  • Finalize headtie/fila accessories

  • Confirm attendance for Traditional Wedding


📝 Your Responsibilities:

  • Be photo-ready and coordinated

  • Represent cultural beauty

  • Dance + celebrate fully during reception

🎉 Aso Ebi Squad  – 

✏️ Your To-Dos:

  • Buy Aso Ebi

  • Plan your outfit for Saturday

  • Book flight + accommodation


📝 Your Responsibilities:

  • Be on time for Reception + After Party

  • Hype us on the dance floor 🕺🏾

  • Celebrate and make memories!

SUBMIT FORM

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As a Groomsman, your suit will be custom-made. Please include your full set of measurements in the text box provided. We recommend getting professionally measured at a local tailor or suit shop. 


Please include:

• Chest  

• Waist  

• Overarm (across broadest part of shoulders/arms)  

• Sleeve Length  

• Jacket Length  

• Inseam  

• Pant Length  

• Shoulder Width  

• Height


If you plan to change for the after party, feel free to bring an extra outfit. Price will be confirmed ASAP. — More information coming soon


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As a Bridesmaid, your dress for our wedding on Saturday will be custom-made based on your measurements. Please review the measurement guide below and include all numbers in the text box provided. We recommend asking someone to help you measure for accuracy (Label & Separate by comma).

 

Please also upload a high quality image of yourself (Face Card) for our wedding website and write 1-2 fun facts about your relationship with the Bride. 

 

Please include:

• Bust  

• Waist  

• Hips  

• Shoulder Width  

• Arm Length  

• Neck Circumference  

• Hollow to Hem  

• Front Waist Length  

• Back Waist Length  

• Shoulder to Floor  

• Back Width  

• Bust Spread (nipple to nipple)  

• Upper Bust  

• Upper Hip

 

Your dress will be off-shoulder, corseted, and full-length with a modest slit. You may also bring a second outfit for the after party. Price will be confirmed ASAP. — More information coming soon

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📝 Notes:

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There will be several Makeup Artists and Gele Tiers available on Saturday at the Bridal Suite. The cost of Gele Tying is ₦15,000. Makeup Artist price range is ₦25,000 - ₦75,000, depending on which artist you choose.


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This section is for guests ordering Aso Ebi to wear on Saturday. This is optional, if you prefer, feel free to refer to our Dress Code on our wedding website: www.aishaandmubarak.com/dress code — Pricing will be available ASAP.

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Men Aso Ebi Fabric (6 Yards) and Fila: $?

Men Aso Ebi Fila ONLY: $?

Women Aso Ebi Fabric (5 Yards) and Gele: $?

Women Aso Ebi Gele ONLY: $?

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Tailoring or Shipping is not included in the price.

Please select your order for Saturday, Aso Ebi Wedding Outfit

This section is for ordering your Friday Aso Ebi Outfit— to be worn at the Traditional Wedding on Friday. Please select your correct outfit based on gender — Pricing will be available ASAP.

 

Men Aso Ebi: $?

Women Aso Ebi: $?

 

Tailoring or Shipping is not included in the price. 

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📝 Notes: FOR LADIES ONLY

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There will be several Makeup Artists and Gele Tiers available at the Bridal Suite. The cost of Gele Tying is ₦15,000. Makeup Artist price range is ₦25,000 - ₦75,000, depending on which artist you choose.

Please select your order for Friday, Traditional Wedding Outfit

Please enter your shipping address where you’d like your items delivered — either in Nigeria or the U.S., depending on your preference.

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📝 Notes:

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Shipping cost will be added to your final invoice based on location. If you're shipping to your tailor directly, please let us know, so we can coordinate accordingly. Double-check for typos — especially city, and postal code!

 

This address will be kept private and used only for wedding-related delivery.

Where would you like your items shipped to?

OUTFIT DETAILS / REQUEST FORM

TRAVEL & ACCOMMODATIONS

ARRIVAL IN LAGOS, NIGERIA

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Arrival Airport: Murtala Muhammed International Airport (LOS) — Lagos, Nigeria


Airport Assistance — More information coming soon

  • Airport escort available on Monday, Dec 8  

  • Group pickups on Monday, Dec 8  

  • Group drop-offs on Monday, Dec 15  

  • Contact us before booking to coordinate your flight

VISA & VACCINES

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Passport:

Make sure your passport is valid through at least June 2026.


Visa:

Apply for a tourist visa at: https://portal.immigration.gov.ng  

We recommend applying at least 3-4 months in advance to avoid delay


Vaccines & Medication:

  • Required: Yellow Fever vaccine (bring your Yellow Card to enter Nigeria)  

  • Recommended: Hepatitis A & B, Typhoid, Malaria Prevention 


Pack over the counter essentials like Tums, Pepto, and diarrhea tablets.

WEDDING PARTY ACCOMMODATION

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Below is the information for the Official Wedding Party Hotel.


The Bride will be staying at this hotel on:

  • Thursday Night: Hotel in Ikorodu (Traditional Wedding) - More information coming soon

  • Friday & Saturday Night: Hotel in Ikeja (Vow Renewal & Reception) - More information coming soon

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The Groom will be staying at this hotel on:

  • Thursday Night: Hotel in Ikorodu (Traditional Wedding) - More information coming soon

  • Friday & Saturday Night: Hotel in Ikeja (Vow Renewal & Reception) - More information coming soon

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If you plan to stay with us at the hotel, please let us know so we can include you in the room block. Group pricing and booking info coming soon.


📝 Notes:

The Brides's Hotel/Suite will be the official location for our Pre-Wedding Photoshoot.

ASO EBI TRAIN ACCOMMODATION

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Below is the information for the Official Aso Ebi Train Hotel.


The Bride will be staying at this hotel on:

  • Thursday Night: Hotel in Ikorodu (Traditional Wedding) - More information coming soon

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The Groom will be staying at this hotel on:

  • Thursday Night: Hotel in Ikorodu (Traditional Wedding) - More information coming soon

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If you plan to stay with us at the hotel, please let us know so we can include you in the room block. Group pricing and booking info coming soon.


📝 Notes:

The Brides's Hotel/Suite will be the official location for our Pre-Wedding Photoshoot.

HOTEL RECOMMENDATIONS

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We’ll share a list of recommended hotels in Ikeja (Saturday) with rates and booking info. These are vetted for safety, comfort, and convenience to the venues. We recommend booking early — December is a busy wedding season in Lagos!

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Hotel Options

More information coming soon.

TRANSPORTATION​ IN LAGOS

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We’ll share a list of recommended car rental companies with rates and booking info. These are vetted for safety, comfort, and convenience. We recommend booking early — December is a busy wedding season in Lagos!

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Rental Car Options

More information coming soon

MONEY AND CURRENCY TIPS

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  • Bring USD cash — preferably $100 bills (you’ll get a better exchange rate).  

  • Do not exchange at a bank. We’ll help you exchange safely using the black market rate. More bang for your buck!

  • Only bring the credit card you used to book your flight in case it’s needed at check-in.

  • Nigeria is mostly cash-based — don’t rely on your debit/credit cards.

COMMUNICATION & TECH TIPS

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We purchasing a portable WiFi device (in Nigeria) for reliable data and calls or reach out to your phone provider to see if your plan comes with international roaming.


Install these apps:  

  • WhatsApp (for all group communication)    

  • FaceTime or Google Voice for international calling


Bring these items:  

  • Power bank (essential)  

  • International adapter (Type D or G)  

  • Charging cables for all your devices


Most recommended hotels will have backup power, but it’s not always guaranteed elsewhere.

PACKING LIST SUGGESTIONS


Here’s what we suggest bringing:


  • Valid passport, visa, yellow fever card  

  • Traditional outfits + reception outfit + after party look  

  • Glam items (makeup, hair tools, jewelry)  

  • Malaria prevention pills  

  • Tums / Pepto / prescription meds  

  • Waist pouch or mini bag for cash/passport  

  • Power bank + chargers  

  • Swimsuit, sandals, heels, sneakers  

  • Outfit to Slay {Summer Wear} Nigeria has a hot climate, with slight cool breeze at night, so a light jacket will suffice. Some of our events require a dress code, please keep that in mind, when packing.

CHILDREN & FAMILY INFO


Kids are welcome at both wedding days for our Wedding Party & Family.


Friday (Traditional Wedding):  

  • Hosted at the bride’s family home  

  • Children will stay indoors with a designated nanny


Saturday (Reception):  

  • Kids table with activities + coloring  

  • 3–4 professional nannies will be on site

  • A security guard will be present to ensure peace of mind for parents

OUR WEDDING SCHEDULE

Event Name

Time

Location

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FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS


1. What’s the weather like in Lagos in December?  

Lagos is warm, festive, and sunny in December — expect temperatures between 85–90°F (29–32°C). Pack light, breathable clothing, sunglasses, and sunscreen!


2. Where should I stay during the wedding weekend?  

We’ll be sharing hotel recommendations soon, along with group block information for guests.


3. When should I plan to arrive in Lagos?  

If you're part of the Wedding Party or Aso Ebi Train, we suggest arriving by Monday, December 8th to be part of fittings, group activities, and rehearsals. Otherwise, arrive with enough time to rest and prepare for the celebration!


4. Will there be an official invitation or wedding website?  

Yes! Everyone will receive an official wedding invitation and access to the main wedding website with RSVP details. This private page is just for our Wedding Party and Aso Ebi fam to help you prepare with exclusive details.


5. Can I bring a gift to the wedding?  

Your love and presence is the best gift of all. If you'd still like to bless us, we’re gratefully accepting monetary gifts only at this time. Details will be included on the wedding website.


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Still have questions?  

Feel free to contact us directly — we’re happy to help:


📧 Email: ourbellovedstory@gmail.com

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